Sunday, November 15, 2009

Moving On

For those who followed these many posts as they were written, or for those who are just stumbling upon them for the first time, please know that I have moved on. When I wrote this blog, I was in a very particular time and place, and now I am in another. I took a long break from writing, but now I am back at it again, this time a little differently, out from under the cover of a pseudonym, with the possibility of writing about a broader set of issues. Not news, though, and not gossip, and certainly not op ed pieces, but still stories. Stories.

You will find me now at Coming Out / Staying Out. Thanks for reading.


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